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John arranged a fun party Saturday night to celebrate the (near) completion of our new garage. I'm enthusiastic about it, not only because we can get our woodshop out of the guest bedroom and the boxes out of my office, but because it is a de facto "public space". There is a strong tradition on the ranch of entertaining outdoors, and of dropping by on outdoor "living rooms" for spontaneous gatherings. So far we have had only private space that is not visible from the road; now that we have a visible, accessible, public space some distance from the house, things are going to be kind of different. It will also provide a link to our outdoor fireplace, which is woefully underused. This will be particularly nice for Bill since he really enjoys having his buddies around.

Our gatherings are always open-invitation and it's interesting to see how that has evolved. I knew some neighbors would be friendly and other neighbors would not be. What I didn't expect would be that the loudmouth gun-toting redneck crowd would embrace us enthusiastically, while the three gay couples just down the road would refuse to associate with us at all. Can't say I lose any sleep over it though.

I would post photos but the building is still wrapped in Tyvek and looks really ugly. When the board and bat siding is applied and oiled, it will be beautiful. I'll post some then!

Date: 2011-10-24 05:21 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] dhpbear.livejournal.com
Although a photo of a Tyvek-wrapped garage would make a good 'before' shot!

Date: 2011-10-25 01:39 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] albear-garni.livejournal.com

It is odd, to say the least, how the gay folks seem to fraternize a lot with other straights, but not with each other up here, too. OTOH, our closest neighbors do socialize with us, but rarely with anyone else on the ranch.
BTW, did you go to the event that was held in Ukiah a two Saturdays ago?

Date: 2011-10-25 02:58 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] snousle.livejournal.com
??? Not sure what event that would be so I guess I wasn't there!

Date: 2011-10-25 03:01 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] snousle.livejournal.com
Well, the two lesbians and four gay men down from us hang with each other all the time. But we associate with "undesirable persons" (actual quote) so they won't come to our house.

Date: 2011-10-25 04:40 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] albear-garni.livejournal.com
There was a Billy club/lesbian/pan-gay party in Ukiah, kind of a costume ball, given by the Mendocino pride alliance. We were at an event at Frey winery, and one of the staff figured us out and told us about it!

Date: 2011-10-25 08:07 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] broduke2000.livejournal.com
What I didn't expect would be that the loudmouth gun-toting redneck crowd would embrace us enthusiastically, while the three gay couples just down the road would refuse to associate with us at all.

We get that too.

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