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snousle ([personal profile] snousle) wrote2013-07-30 11:02 am

Falling out of love with LJ

Gosh, it's been nearly ten years of writing here on LJ, and for a good while I've considered myself an LJ diehard, but the juice just isn't flowing anymore.

It's a couple of things, one being engagement, the other laziness. G+ seems to have captured me on both fronts. G+ is very action-oriented, it's got my phone buzzing all the time, it gets my fingers flying. And it's easy.

I do like being able to control the layout of photo-heavy posts using html, but posting straight from Picasa to G+ is so quick and straightforward that it's hard to muster up the energy to do anything else.

G+ has many serious annoyances but ultimately what I write and where I write it is not really a conscious decision. Either it spews forth or it doesn't. G+ is where it's spewing right now, warts and all. The annoyances are kind of a big deal, and there are definitely subjects I would write about here but not over there, but still it's not enough to turn the whole ship around again.

The thing that tears me up is that poll I did a while back indicating that nearly all of you would rather read my work here than over there. I can re-post over here but something about that process feels kind of deadening. And it's hard to catch up once I get behind on that. So I've ended up feeling kind of "virtually homeless", so that no venue feels quite right. And I am left wondering if I have put too much time into it in the first place. Am I getting anywhere or just writing the same things over and over with different details? That's how it feels sometimes.

[identity profile] bitterlawngnome.livejournal.com 2013-07-30 07:44 pm (UTC)(link)
There's also the idea of posting spontaneously to G+ and then writing a (weekly or whatever) considered post here.

But on the larger issue, I'm feeling lately that online socialising (if it is that) is kinda toxic to me unless I limit it pretty strictly.

[identity profile] muckefuck.livejournal.com 2013-07-30 07:47 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm finding that it doesn't really work for me unless combined with face-to-face, even if it's not very frequent. There is so much unnecessary online drama than can be defused with just a few minutes in someone's actual company.

[identity profile] bitterlawngnome.livejournal.com 2013-07-30 07:52 pm (UTC)(link)
Mostly I don't like how I feel & behave in that context. Hatefulness that really is none of my business, drama that really is none of my business, deliberate button-pushing I don't need to be exposed to - and then I either have to resist interacting with it, or fail and get sucked in and feel like a stupid shit for the rest of the day. My energy should be going elsewhere.

[identity profile] muckefuck.livejournal.com 2013-07-30 08:20 pm (UTC)(link)
Yeah, even making the decision to not get involved in crap that's none of your business in the first place saps energy and sticking with it takes even more. On the plus side, the technology is making it easier than ever to filter out what you'd rather not be subjected to.